for my dad, probably a 1. He would almost never blow his temper, and just calmly talked it out with me when I had problems, and he let me do whatever I want as long as I keep my grades in check
my mom is a different story, with a 10. She would restrict all my electronic devices, and force me to study all day, and when the slightest problem pops up, her temper just explodes and basically takes it out on everyone in the family :oof: