(11 Apr 2018, 07:26 AM)HelheimDK Wrote: So let's get some debate going.
When is it okay to judge a person?
Is it okay to judge a person by there outside?
Is it okay to judge a person of what you have heard of them?
I personally think that the way you dress and the way you represent yourself on the outside can give a good idea of how you are as a person.
I would judge a person for what they are wearing, but I would have it as a first impression kinda judgment. Until I get to know them.
The same with rumours and other kinda stuff, its a little idea of who they are before you get to know them, but they are not hard to change.
All love
HelHeimDK
When I'm too poor for fashion clothes so I go for functionality and comfort, then get judged by @"HelheimDK" :SinaCry:
Personally I judge people by their actions - Do you take 2 spots in the bus instead of 1 when the bus is filled up? You deserve to die in the depths of flames
I may judge people on how they answer philosophical answers too :Photobomb:
I value being prepared and taking things seriously very high, so if you're a slacker, don't expect respect from me :Nier: "Always try your hardest, even if it hurts, you have to get out of the comfortable couch before you can begin jogging." - #Icemon2015
I also judge people that judge others without more thought - "Oh hey, this guy didn't do his homework or didn't sleep well last night, I bet he was up doing who knows what, probably not something good or relevant though" Who knows? Maybe they have circumstances, ask them if you're so curious, or stop judging without anything to back it up~ :homrascary:
"Is it okay to judge a person?"
I believe it is more than alright to judge a person, based on if what they say is backed up by anything
"Is it okay to judge a person by their outside?"
Not without anything to back it up, if a slacker keeps slacking, go ahead, but if someone slacks on the first try, it doesn't make him a slacker. If their clothes look dirty or out of fashion, they may not be choosing their clothes. If a person doesn't smiles in front of you, it doesn't necessarily mean that they never smile.
"Is it okay to judge a person of what you have heard of them?"
Usually, these incidents happen when there's a negative rumor about someone. To every rumor, there's a truth, the question is where to find it, and the fastest way would be to ask the person in question to begin with, if another story stumbles upon you instead of the rumor, there's a contradiction, and therefore you shouldn't believe in neither the rumor nor the person~ Don't be quick to judge people on what you have heard, but it's hard to restrain oneself from judging/thinking, therefore you should think long and hard of how legit the source(s) of information is.