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Why do we fall in love?
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Love, as the song says, is a many-splendored thing. So, when we find it, we're keen to enjoy the spoils. But what is it about humans that makes us long for love in the first place? it turns out the most inherent reason is also probably the least romantic.

"Generally speaking, human 'pair bonding' is a drive to keep the species in existence,"explains Dr.Nicki Nance, licensed psychotherapist and professor at Beacon College in Leesburg, Florida in a email interview. Over time, the tendency to find a love connection evolved from relationships built on need to those of enjoyment. "Today, falling in love is socially defined. if we didn't have love stories to establish the expectation of falling in love, we might not do it. we would still bond, though,"she says, noting contemporary love is more successful when key components like passion, companionship and commitment are present.


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To promote intercourse to pass on genetic material...
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(21 Jun 2018, 01:17 PM)Victent Wrote: To promote intercourse to pass on genetic material...

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very good question always thought because we need that extra friend t help through life
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(23 Jun 2018, 12:49 AM)Panic at The Disco Wrote: very good question always thought because we need that extra friend t help through life

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To this day at least for me its been a constant mystery, much has went on in my life, but i still don't know much about this, i don't even fully understand my type, yes I've had crushes since i was young, but still. Love is something most human desires, from great friends to relationships, people seek different things, to find a perfect soul mate or find someone you can relate to and be there for you.
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RE: Why do we fall in love?

Passing on genetic information is the main factor. As for monogamy, that's still unsolved, but it may be to do with survival strategy.
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Why we love is simple, to make new generations. But what do we love in people, what (On average) makes someone want to be with someone?

Many traits that relate would be how strong the person is mentally and physically, and how good they are at caring for people. Basically family values are extremely important to love.

If you're looking for what you can do to make yourself more "loveable". Here's what it is.

-take care of yourself, shower, eat, workout. Not everyone will look like a supermodel but people can tell when someone is a slob.

-Talk to people more, the only way to become more socially attractive is to communicate with people. I personally was an introvert but I forced myself to talk to people and now I can do so easily.

-Stand up for your values. Don't be a pushover, be strong in what you believe. If someone sees someone who can't do that then they won't want to be with them. How can you stand up for someone else if you can't stand up for yourself?

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You guys expect me to read that thing all....you must be crazy ....xD
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