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Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.
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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

Everyone have problems so it doesn't mean they have to die because when there is a problem there is always a solution.
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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

(25 May 2019, 08:52 PM)KangarWu Wrote: Real talk, whats yalls opinion on people that say they wanna "end it all"?  Real talk real talk, I think they tryna look for attention and not think about those around them that care about them.

Also, those that say "I would die for you" is also kinda taking the easy way out if you think about it. 


   1. Dying is the easiest way to "attain" them feels
   2. Living for someone/some people is legit the hardest task anyone could do for another. 

And those that get offend or agree or disagree, lets talk about it.

p.s.  dont @ me
Agreed, they are just looking for attention or sometimes it can be because life isn't going the way they want and probably are just wounded people. They normally don't appreciate life and don't care about the consequences of their choices they think it's over and think its the right way but its rather the easy way out and are usually just running away from their life problems. In addition, they think it will only hurt themselves but it's going to also hurt their families and friends.


so basically suicide isn't the way to go, appreciate life and try to enjoy it even if it's hard and you feel like you are suffocating and if you feel like committing suicide try to talk to people and try to find a person to make you stick/cling to life as much as possible because when you die its just nothingness.

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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

It's either for attention or they're just depressed through either social media or even real life.
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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

Discussing human psychology without considering the victim's perspective is not the best way of discussing it.

Everyone can say "they just do it for attention" and "they don't consider what would it do to their families" (most of the replies here are just this) and then there's "everybody has problems stop whining about it". What about stepping into the boots of the person saying this? Depression isn't proportional to what happens to a person. It's a series of negative events that leads that person to that phase.

While thinking about suicide, negative thoughts and emotions is all you see and the logical part of your mind is influenced by them. It's simple to see logically and call someone dumb when they are feeling suicidal but you can't say anything if you haven't hit the rock bottom.

I have hit the rock bottom, I have even cut myself. Somehow people who were ready to help (@SmG CCPrincess & @SmG Stinger) instead of considering me an "attention seeker", helped me and I am no longer that worse. Tho I admit I wasn't thinking straight and killing myself would've made things worse but seeing what had happened and what led me to that particular moment in life made me empathise for people who are saying "I am gonna do it".

Helping people like this instead of having a general negative view about them would make the world a better place.
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(26 May 2019, 07:25 AM)Nanii Wrote: “You just want attention, you don’t want my heart” SinaBanger

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(26 May 2019, 09:18 AM)Blade Wrote: Discussing human psychology without considering the victim's perspective is not the best way of discussing it.

Everyone can say "they just do it for attention" and "they don't consider what would it do to their families" (most of the replies here are just this) and then there's "everybody has problems stop whining about it". What about stepping into the boots of the person saying this? Depression isn't proportional to what happens to a person. It's a series of negative events that leads that person to that phase.

While thinking about suicide, negative thoughts and emotions is all you see and the logical part of your mind is influenced by them. It's simple to see logically and call someone dumb when they are feeling suicidal but you can't say anything if you haven't hit the rock bottom.

I have hit the rock bottom, I have even cut myself. Somehow people who were ready to help (@SmG CCPrincess & @SmG Stinger) instead of considering me an "attention seeker", helped me and I am no longer that worse. Tho I admit I wasn't thinking straight and killing myself would've made things worse but seeing what had happened and what led me to that particular moment in life made me empathise for people who are saying "I am gonna do it".

Helping people like this instead of having a general negative view about them would make the world a better place.
I wont lie to you, I've been talking with a lot of those with depression. And I've helped them out for some time. But I have yet to understand it. It is very very difficult for me to be empathetic as I haven't experienced it. I can only, at most, be sympathetic.

 I kind of do want to take back on the attention seeking comment, but my subconscious always goes towards that thought. On the contrary of being on the logical side, I do have a side that is very understanding. I've been trying to ask many of those that have said depression, why. Of course, this is not forced upon them but I get vague answers. Some of them are shy talking about why, I can understand that. But what I do not understand is why make an announcement about it. That just provokes conversation to talk about the subject. But then, no one wants to talk about how said depression. But again, i understand that too.

It's been a hard road for me when it comes to getting to know something that you've never experienced. It's sort of like a blind person trying to understand what red is when they never could see to begin with.

yeah... Something like that.
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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

Yep attention Kappa
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god is the answer there is a way in everything
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(26 May 2019, 01:36 PM):oof:Trp69 Wrote: god is the answer there is a way in everything

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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

People who want to die won't say they want to, at least not to anyone, those who do say it, are looking for attention
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RE: Thoughts on those that wanna end it all.

(26 May 2019, 02:04 PM)luzifer Wrote: People who want to die won't say they want to, at least not to anyone, those who do say it, are looking for attention

Like 95% people, yes that is true
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